I start my bottoms off doggy, then I push them down flat for prone bone. Sex with another guy is to me more like a dominance and conquest kind of thing. No affection, just taking my man lotion.
I enjoy being fucked from behind. The top can control the pace, he can slap your ass or pull your hair, and he can also kiss your neck. The best bit is when they lie you down on your front and totally control you, spreading your legs and thrusting deep.